Seeking Love Match

Finding love

Everyone wants to find that special person to call their own...that perfect match. Everyone wants to find that perfect person. The entire world is seeking a love match. It's like the line from the movie Jerry Maguire, when Tom Cruise's character, Jerry Maguire, says "You...complete me." That's exactly what every man and woman is looking for...someone who will complete them. Someone who will make them whole.

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What are some examples of what we seek in our love match? We want someone who will be there when we need them. Someone whose shoulder we can lean on. Someone who is there to motivate and support us. Someone who will be our cheerleader when we need one and offer objectivity when we need that. Someone who will be there to wipe away our tears when our eyes, when it feels as if our world is coming down around us. Someone who will hold our hands when we get scared and tell us that everything is going to be alright and that our feeling is only temporary. Someone to share our lives with. Someone we can count on. Someone we can share our secrets, our dreams, our aspirations and our disappointments. Someone to tell us that they love us and mean it when they say it. Someone that we can say, "I love you" to, and really mean it.

Why are there over 6 billion people on the planet and yet so many lonely people seeking a love match? I'm sure that you have many friends who are seeking a girlfriend, who are seeking a boyfriend, or who are ready to get married and settle down. Surely, there are more than enough people to go around. Can it be due our expectations of that perfect match being too high? Can it be that we expect more from our love match than we are able to offer? Can it be that we are too willing to quit a relationship at the earliest signs of trouble, rather than finding a way to "make it work?" Maybe we shouldn't be expecting our love match to be Superwoman or Superman. Maybe if we approach every conversation with every person with an open mind and without prejudice, we might just be surprised at how many eligible partners we find.

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Most people are happier when they are in a relationship than when they are single. This is due to a variety of reasons:

Companionship
Someone you trust and who trusts you.
Security
Someone to share your deepest secrets with.
Intimacy is better when you've known the person for a longer period of time.
Openness in knowing that the person loves you for who you are.
Having someone there to share both your successes and failures with.
Knowing that you are loved gives you greater confidence.
It's a good feeling to know that you don't have to go out every weekend in search of someone.
The majority of successful people are those in stable relationships.

Love scents, secret love spells, magic love potions, are just a few of the things that people with try in order to find love. In the animal kingdom animals attract one another through secretion of pheromones. If you think about it we are still part of the animal kingdom, so it is quite possible that pheromones could be used to attract someone of the opposite sex. Look how much money we spend on regular perfumes and colognes. Perfumes and colognes are simple fragrances with nothing else. Scientists have been working on pheromone technology that will attract someone of the opposite sex. These love scents have been hotly debated by people on both sides. Some people swear by them and others consider them to be more of a myth. It is possible that pheromones act on a more subconscious level. The human nose is only capable of detecting scents to a certain degree; however, the subconscious ability of humans is unfathomable. It is possible our subconscious is able to detect these scents without the individual consciously being aware of it. The only way to be sure is to try it out for yourself and you can be your own judge.

Love spells would fall more under the branch of myth than fact. The only way that love spells could actually work would be if the person whom the spell is being used on knew about the spell. If he or she is the type of person who is superstitious, then they could convince themselves that it is working and begin to exhibit signs of the love spells work. Think of it as a hypnotic suggestion. If someone gives you a command or you give yourself a command once, it may not do anything. If however, you hear that same command or phrase over and over again, it is possible to begin believing it and acting upon it. So, while the actual love spell may not have any power on its own or carry any weight, the power of your victim’s subconscious mind is powerful enough to make it reality. The same would apply to magic love potions.

Both of the above examples go to show how the power of the subconscious mind can play a role in your love life and actually does play a very important role. Everyone deserves to be loved and deserves to experience being in love at some point of their lives. In this high tech world that we live in, we put all of our hopes and dreams into technology and we forget that we can actually take steps and make strides within our inward selves and be able to manifest the desired results in our outward selves and daily lives. If you’ve ever been to a motivational speaker, they will all tell you the same thing. They say that the image that you currently have of yourself is either what is holding you back or helping you to succeed. If you have a negative self image and bad things keep happening to you, something as simple as taking steps to change how you feel about yourself or how you think about yourself in order to see improvements in your daily life.

If you look at the most successful people in life whether it be in their love life or work life, the mental image that they have is the primary proponent of their success. I’m sure that you’ve seen or met someone who may not have been the smartest person you’ve ever seen or the most attractive person that you’ve ever known, but yet, they seem to have everything that their heart desires. They might be in a wonderful relationship with a person that you might think is out of their league. They might hold a high position in a great company. They might even be a successful entrepreneur and seemingly unable to do any wrong. It is said that luck is the product of preparation and opportunity. If you are living in constant doubt, when your love match appears, you are going to be too fearful or doubtful of what you have to offer to be able to approach and court that person. You are going to second guess yourself and convince yourself that the person is out of your league and it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.

If however, you are a positive thinker with a great self image and the opportunity arises to make an introduction and meet the man or woman of your dreams, you find that you are always ready to step up to the challenge. If a business opportunity arises, you are more likely to jump on it and take the bulls by the horns. Positive self image is not something that we are all born with. Most of us have to work at it every day. You can begin to change everything that happens to you in life by starting with your mind. Begin to visual the things that you desire. If you are seeking a love match or a soul mate, first of all begin believing that you are deserving of love. Begin to believe that it is attainable. Not only do you have to believe, but you have to begin to take the necessary steps to help you reach your goal.

Networking is the best way to meet other singles who are looking for a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife. Most people in relationships say that they met their current partners through an introduction by a mutual friend. Go to Happy Hour with your friends, if someone invites you over for a special gathering take a chance and say yes. It beats sitting home by yourself dreaming of meeting your love match. Remember, everything is possible, but you have to take action. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Sitting at home and wishing isn’t going to make it reality, you have to put In the physical effort as well until you realize your goals.

What do you have to offer in a relationship? Who are you as a person? What are your likes and dislikes? What things make you sad? What things make you happy? Have you ever sat down and given a thought as to what you can bring to a relationship? Have you ever sat down and really given thought to your contribution in your past breakups? Maybe it's your short temper that is causing people to run away from you. Maybe it's your jealousy that is driving away potential suitors. Maybe it's the fact that you simply talk too much. Have you ever listened to your partner? I mean really listened to them. When is the last time you asked them to open up to you and listen to what they had to say without judgement?

You've probably heard of the phrase "know thyself". Many of us do not know ourselves, but yet we expect others to know who we are and understand us. Many relationships fall apart on this premise alone. How can you expect anyone to know you, if you yourself do not know who you are? There are many of you out there right now who are waiting for a perfect stranger to knock on your door and sweep you off your feet. This kind of this only happens in fairy tales. The more you know about yourself...your likes, dislikes, desires, wants, etc., the easier it will be for others to get to know you. We are not a society of psychics, so don't expect your partner to be able to read your mind and instantly know what you are feeling or what you need. If we learn about ourselves and learn to communication our needs to our significant others...we will have much more enriching relationships.

Sometimes it isn't just about asking...it has to be genuine. Genuine interest creates a feeling that you really care. That you want to know what's going on their lives. Oftentimes, men feeling the need to resolve an issue will interrupt a woman when she is opening up, not to be rude but to offer advice. What guys need to understand is that sometimes women just want to talk and get it off their chest. They don't need or want your perspective; they just want you to listen to them. So, try to just listen next time. Try to be their support, but let them open up, let them cry if they need to, and you'll be surprised at how positive a course your relationship may take.

Men on the other hand, don't usually like to talk about their problems. It's part of the male code to keep things inside. Though this is outdated, men tend to feel like weaklings if they sit down and talk and cry about their problems. While it is true that early in a relationship women really don't want to hear about a man's problems...later on in the relationship a woman feels that if a man isn't sharing his feelings with her that he really doesn't care about her. So, while it is important to share later on in a relationship, it is important to note that early in the relationship the woman isn't going to appreciate it or really care for that matter, because a bond has not yet been formed. Once the bond has been formed, then it's an entirely different story.

Finally, there are those on both sides, men and women, who don't know when to be quiet. Silence can be "golden". It is not always important to say something. In many instances silence goes much further than spoken word. Sometimes you can ask someone a question and 30 minutes later they're still talking. You can't get a word in edge-wise with these people. If this description sounds like you...I've got a bit of advice to offer you. If you find yourself with a case of diarrhea of the mouth and you are wondering whether or not you should continue with the story, shut up for a moment and ask them a question. If the other person asks you to continue with your story, then they are still interested in what you have to say. If they don't ask you to continue, then you are talking too much and you need to find a way to engage them more in the conversion. There is a saying that we have two ears and one mouth, try listening twice as much as you speak and you will be a delight at every gathering.

When you first meet a person, what are the things that shape your first impression of them? Is it their smile when they greet you? Is it their eyes that draw you in? Is it their lips and the way they move with each and every word that captivates you? Is it their mannerisms that draw on your wildest fantasies? These all may be clues to the personality type that excites you in a relationship. Take note of these traits and once it becomes obvious, seek out the places that will give you the best odds of meeting more of the personality and characteristics that interest you.

We all love and long to be loved in return. This longing for love is what keeps us searching for our love match. We aren't guaranteed that we will find that perfect match, but nothing in life is guaranteed. There is a saying that it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. What do you believe?